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A Friendship App, Quieter

Welcome to your digital living room

A weekly reflection app for the small circle of close friends you already have. One meaningful question, answered privately, revealed together.

Free to download. Start with the free plan, upgrade anytime.

Friends having a meaningful conversation in a cozy living room

Modern Social Media Scatters Our Friendships

We want to stay close to people who matter, but existing tools fail us. They're designed for convenience, not connection.

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Can't be vulnerable when your boss, mom, and high school rival are all watching

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Endless Noise

No structure for depth—just logistics, memes, and notifications that never stop

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Algorithmic Outrage

Debate over dialogue; designed to amplify conflict, not connection

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Aesthetic Pressure

The perfection tax kills authentic sharing. Everything must look beautiful

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Engagement Addiction

Designed to maximize screen time, not meaningful time with real people

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Solo Echo Chamber

Reflection without connection—you talk to yourself, never to others

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But isn't regularly talking
to our closest people
the thing that matters most ?

We don't need more followers, more likes, or more content. We need structured space to be real with the people we already care about.

Step 1

Create Your Circles

Small, trusted groups of 2-8 people. Your close friends, your family, your partner. The people you actually want to know better.

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Support Group

Friends

Us Two
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Us Two

Partner

Modern Family
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Modern Family

Family

Drafting & Laughing
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Step 2

One Question Each Week

Every Monday, your circle gets a thoughtful prompt. Questions designed to spark real conversations, not small talk.

Category Stories & Memories

"What current fact about your life would most impress your five-year-old self?"

Type Partner

"What's something about how we communicate that you really like?"

Type Family

"What's a quirk you have that you only realized came from this family after someone else pointed it out?"

Category Dreams & Fears

"What's a dream you have that feels selfish to say out loud?"

Type Sports & Hobby

"What's a session you'd freeze and put in a frame if you could?"

Category Culture & Creativity

"What's a piece of art or culture you're glad I introduced you to?"

Depth Personal

"What's something you used to judge others for that you now understand?"

Category Health & Wellness

"What's something simple you do every day for your wellbeing?"

Step 3

Real Answers, Real Connection

Everyone answers before seeing others' responses. No groupthink. Just honest reflections that bring you closer.

Anna

"I have my own apartment with a real kitchen. Five-year-old me would have lost it over the freezer ice maker alone."

Anna

James

"How you ask one more question after I'm done answering. Most people just wait for their turn."

James

Sophie

"I narrate while I cook. Apparently it's a Mom thing. I had no idea until my roommate filmed me explaining the onions."

Sophie

John

"A year where I just write and don't earn anything. One year. I feel guilty even saying it out loud."

John

Marcus

"The ride up to the lake at sunrise last September. Nobody talked for the last twenty minutes. I think about it all the time."

Marcus

Emma

"Studio Ghibli. I rolled my eyes the first time. Now I've seen Spirited Away four times and you owe me nothing."

Emma

Week by week, question by question, you'll understand each other in ways you never expected.

What Makes It Different

Colloquies isn't just another messaging app. It's designed from the ground up for depth, not convenience.

Small Circles Only

Small Circles Only

Intimacy dies in large groups. We enforce a ceiling of 2–8 people so everyone can be honest without performing for a crowd.

Blind Answers First

Blind Answers First

You must share your answer before seeing anyone else's. This eliminates groupthink and ensures everyone contributes authentically.

Weekly Rhythm

Weekly Rhythm

Not daily pressure, not monthly distance. One thoughtful prompt every Monday gives you space to reflect and respond meaningfully.

Private & Encrypted

Private & Encrypted

End-to-end encryption means your conversations stay between your people. Colloquies is a paid app with a generous free tier, which means we don't need to sell or view any of your data. No ads, no algorithm mining your intimacy, just pure connection.

What We Believe

Colloquies is not built to maximize engagement. It's built to maximize meaning.

Privacy is Sacred

Your reflections are yours, not our data. End-to-end encrypted. No ads, no data mining, no surveillance.

Slow is Good

One question a week is enough. We're anti-hustle, intentionally slow. Depth over breadth, always.

Free Tier

Chat forever free. Real value, not a teaser. We want you to experience depth before you pay.

Thoughtfully Designed

No endless scrolling, no like buttons, no algorithmic feeds. Just one question, one week, one circle.

Simple, Transparent Pricing

Start free. Upgrade when you're ready for more depth and features.

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Stay Connected

Everything you need to start meaningful conversations

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  • Create up to 3 circles
  • Join up to 5 circles
  • Full messaging — text, reactions, replies, attachments
  • A new Colloquy prompt every week, in every circle
  • 90 conversation starters in the picker
  • Messages stay on your device, indefinitely
  • 90 days of cloud history (so new devices can catch up)
  • Full data export (JSON)
  • End-to-end encrypted
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Richer conversations with the people who matter most

$ 2.99 /month

or $29.99/year (save $5.89)

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  • Everything in Free, plus:
  • Unlimited circles (create & join)
  • Unlimited cloud history for circles you host
  • All 900 conversation starters
  • More features coming soon

Start Your First Circle Today

Available on iOS and Android. Download now and invite your closest people to join your first circle.

Free to download. Start with the free plan, upgrade anytime.

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