Mismatched Plates
Only about 4% of Americans host or attend a social event on a given weekend. We've made hosting too hard. A note on what the dinner parties people return to actually have in common.
April 29, 2026 Viktor Stojanov
How to Make Friends as an Adult
Adult friendship isn't a personality problem. It's an infrastructure problem, and the infrastructure is quietly coming back. Where to look, how to show up, and what to do when the first three weeks feel awkward.
April 20, 2026 Colloquies Team
The Thursday Problem
Men aren't losing friends because they won't open up. They're losing the weekly reason to show up. The male friendship crisis is an infrastructure problem, not a character one.
April 19, 2026 Colloquies Team
Why Your Best Friendships Have a Rhythm
The friendships that survive adult life share one trait: regularity. Research shows why a weekly cadence matters more than grand gestures.
April 16, 2026 Colloquies Team